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Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Probably the most political post I've written, which will land me in unpopularville
I wasn't going to write about Lance Armstrong, but then I read a very thought provoking post by my friend Lance (not that one, the less famous one). I started to write a comment for him, and found that by the end I had written a book. So I decided to post it here instead to get your thoughts too.
I don't get star struck, I never have and I hope I never will. Because at the end of the day celebrities are just people who happen to have high profile jobs that over pay at a ridiculous level. But because of that over exposure, and over payment, they are held at a higher standard for generic reasons. That standard adds pressure to be better, to set a certain example, to be more than what or who you naturally are. And then you might find yourself lying to the world to cover up your mistakes because you couldn't actually be that standard.
I'm not defending Lance Armstrong. I have no reason to, and no right to. I'm saying the whole system is flawed. I don't care if he took the drugs, nor do I care if he lied. What's done is done. I care about why he would have taken the drugs and then lied. What pedestal was he put on that drove him to need all that? Think about all the celebrities that cave to the pressure of being famous, and the lengths they'll go to just to keep that status quo. The whole situation is sad. And worse yet, for years we'll be talking about that guy who took performance enhancing drugs and lied about it, instead of learning from his mistake. He's not the first, and I doubt he'll be the last, but I'll bet others will learn how to hide it better instead of learning to not partake.
Celebrities are praised for being famous, which makes as much sense as praising me for showing up to work on time. It's their work that deserves accolades, but even then there is a limit to how much. No one shows up at my desk screaming and fainting over my collating skills, which are pretty badass if I do say so myself. So how about we all take a step back, and think about the pressures we put on other people and ourselves. What good is that pressure really doing for anyone?
I'm risking some arguments, but sometimes that's not a bad thing when it's constructive. What are your thoughts on the Lance Armstrong situation?
PS. Lance, I really enjoyed your post, as it got me thinking, and I consider thinking a good thing. You made a lot of really great points, and I intended this post as a compliment to yours.
PPS. My use of the word political in the title is obviously the loose definition of the word, and not the literal. Get over it. I do that often.
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I like this post, Dawnie. I do. It's not making you unpopular with me.
ReplyDeleteAlso? LOVE the new look here. ROck on!!
thanks and thanks! I finally got around to sitting still long enough to make some design updates. Been meaning to for weeks.
DeleteAnd yeah, I think most people (from what I've seen so far) are either Armstrong haters now, or defenders to the end. Not too many see the grey area between where it's not 100% his fault, but rather a result of his environment. I'm a big picture kind of girl. I like to sort out why things happen so I can learn more, and hopefully be objective. I'm guilty too of expecting more from celebrities, so this was a nice reminder to myself to step back and think about the pressures placed upon them and us.
WEll, the points I made in my post - the way he hurt people, the way he ruined people to protect his lies, the fact the drugs may have caused his cancer, his dumping sheryl crow when she was diagnosed, the way he pocketed money from the foundation, and on and on, make me unable to have empathy.
ReplyDeleteBut I'm honored you read mine, wrote this, and we're friends enough to talk about this.
well done
Ah yes, my empathy is for the situation, not for him. I think the situation originated from unnecessary pressures put on him, but he still has decisions to make and he chose very poorly. I guess my point is that I put the blame somewhere in the middle between his actions and what drove him to those actions, whereas most people put all the blame directly on him. We are all a product of our environment whether we want to be or not, and celebrity environments are created by the expectations of the masses. Having said that, there are plenty of celebrities who make better choices in spite of everything, and it's a shame he wasn't one of those.
DeleteI definitely get starstruck. Even with not famous strangers at the supermarket. Oh wait, that's anxiety?
ReplyDeleteBut Lance Armstrong has never really been on my radar. Won the Tour de France a billion, dated Sheryl Crow, beat cancer. That was the extent of my knowledge and/or interest. Even when I heard he was doping. Everyone lies. *cue Massive Attack* Why not him?
I don't get why everyone expects perfection out of the famous. They're just people and we are one fucked up race.
I can understand that people that were really into him could feel hurt by it. But as much as you think you know about a famous person, all you're really seeing is their representative. You're seeing the best they can offer up, which is hardly ever the whole truth.
And to tell you the truth, I don't care that he doped or lied. Probably because I didn't have anything invested in him. I did have something invested in Clinton and his lying and screwing around didn't bother me a bit. I'd vote for the guy again in a heartbeat. Because I think he did some really good shit for our country and because I think he did what they all do, but he got caught.
Do I think all the competition were doping too? I don't know or care. But I do know for sure that I couldn't have done what he did doped to the gills on the world'd best shit. I also know that he put a lot of dolla bills into places where they really needed to be. I also know I should have written my own post because holy fuck this is a long comment about something I claim to not care about.